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Saturday, June 24, 2006

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yup yup! that's my new hair colour!! wahahahahaaa!
damn happy and quite amazed at my cam.. the colours captured by the cam is amazing..

anihow

i'm in denial. school is NOT going to start on monday. i do NOT have med soc essay to write.

=)

moving on.. today i had an okie day.. but today was a "find faults with daddy" day.. i know.. its one of those days.. but don't get me wrong.. i truely do love my daddy unconditionally, however, i still get irritated by his actions..

the thing that first caught my attention is that my daddy doesn't open the door for my mother neither does he say please.. my mum's reasoning for this is that they've been married for 20 over years already and it has become a habit.. my opinion is.. since its a habit then why does it have to be a bad habit? why can't it be a good one? like a habit of opening the door for the girl, opening a can for the girl, walking on the side closer to the road to make sure the girl doesn't get dirty if a car whooshes by or climbing up the stairs behind her to make sure he's there when she misses a step... i mean.. if you do those things when you are dating then why does it change after you get married? i certainly expect my boyfriend to retain all these small but thoughtful actions even after we get married.. even now if my bf walks infront of me and walks through a door and forgets to open it for me i'll stand at the door and wait.. my reason behind all this is that guys should be more gentleman.. gentle boyfriend.. gentle husband... haha.. you must start cultivating good habits when you are young..

another reason for feeling so pissed is cuz my father's actions influence my brother to be impolite and demanding.. i mean, if a young and impressionable young boy looks at his father not saying please or demanding that something is to be done then he'd think "well, since my father is doing it, then why can't i ? since my father treats my mum that way then i can too." i feel that its not right. then he will deminish the value of women. and he will not be the gentleman that i expect guys to be.

maybe my mother's views are different because of the different ways and different century(haha! kidding!she's not that old..) that we are brought up in. nowadays girls/ women expect their boyfriends to respect them and treat them as an equal. whereas back in the day, women are supposed to be submissive to their husbands and its good enough that their husbands do not cheat on them. these days, women expect much more in their spouse not only are they not allowed to cheat, they are to listen to what we have to say and compromise with us rather than always having things his way.

life is good now. i'm glad things are this way. but i think that if i were brought up in that era ( haha! i add years to my mother's age!! =P) i wouldn't be thinking this way... but any how... girl power!!!!!!!!! wahahahaha!


healthy lifestyle here i come! i'm going swimming tmr with wingyan!! yippee!! see u there darling!


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